To enjoy a magical and love filled St Valentine’s Day, there’s no need to buy into the hyped up commercialism. The special and most romantic day of the year is the perfect time to focus on your own happiness.
Whether you’re already loved up, content being single, or you’re searching for soulmate true love, on February 14th make a date to celebrate unconditional love this year…
Let go of the past
If you’ve been carrying around emotional baggage, it’s time to heal the wounds and scars from previous love experiences. Heartache can’t heal if you’re constantly focusing on guilt, blame or shame.
Forgive yourself and those that caused your suffering, and treat yourself with kindness and compassion. Shift your perspective, so that you can see how every failed relationship has offered you an opportunity for personal growth that is absolutely priceless.
On the day that’s traditionally dedicated to love, make a commitment to let go of the past and to be open to new possibilities. You can spread a little love by chatting and flirting with friendly folk from all over the UK, on the UK’s favourite chat line.
Accept invitations to socialise with friends, and dare yourself to strike up conversations with interesting new people. Over time, you’ll gradually find that you no longer feel burdened by ‘what might have been’ thoughts of the past, and that you’re looking forward to a new adventure in your love life.
Be happy now
Not all romantic relationships are the stuff of fairytales. The demands of life can often negatively impact on even the most harmonious and perfect love connection. If you’re partnered up, but not feeling the love, give your relationship another chance by putting in some extra effort this Valentine’s Day.
Focus on all of the things that you love about your other half, and how they make your day-to-day experiences much more positive, happy and fun. Plan a Valentine date night with your lover, and pull out all the stops to romance each other just like when you first met.
If you’re unattached, and hoping to find your ideal love match, take a moment to appreciate how great your life presently is. Thank your lucky stars that you’re not married to someone you don’t love, or that you have a controlling partner who puts restrictions on you.
Loving your single life is important, if you want to attract true romance into your orbit. Being desperate or needy will simply align you with someone who isn’t able to give you the real love you want and deserve.
To build a lasting love relationship with your POI, it’s crucial that you have a solid foundation of self-love. How much love, respect and compassion you have for yourself will influence your boundaries and how you let others treat you.
On St Valentine’s Day, honour yourself and celebrate your awesomeness. Give yourself a pat on the back for everything that you do well. Learn from life’s lessons and grow from each experience. Accept your flaws and perceived imperfections and love yourself from head to toe.
You can also celebrate with a special self-care ritual that makes you feel fabulously pampered, or simply enjoy quality timeout doing an activity that fills your heart with happiness and joy.
When you’re able to love yourself unconditionally, you’ll have your pick of potential suitors, if you’re single and looking for love. If you’ve already met your match, loving yourself will show your partner that you know your worth and value, and that they’re lucky to have you in their life.
Spread the love
When you truly love yourself, you embody the intoxicating energy of divine love that has the power to attract people, opportunities and good things your way. That magical aura of pure love that surrounds you is potently magnetic, so it’s wise to focus on directing it in ways that benefit your emotional wellbeing.
On chat and date sites, you’re likely to find that you effortlessly attract attention, and that flirty messages quickly fill up your personal voice mailbox. In social and networking environments, don’t be surprised to find that you’re the centre of attention. As a kind and loving being, you’ll naturally enrich the life of everyone that you connect with just by being the best version of you.